In 2006, a ringing device was a social invitation. In 2026, it’s a suspicious activity report.

I hate that literally 95% of the time my phone rings, it's a Medicare scammer.

Answering a call from a strange phone number is an invitation to steal your voice for malicious purposes. Nuh uh.

Eh, a lot of the time it was a telemarketer then too

In case you don’t know this, most phones have a setting that pushes to voicemail immediately any caller that is not in your contacts. If it’s legitimate, they’ll leave a voicemail and then you can add them as a contact for next time. But basically yeah, if my phone rings at al...

Can't say I've noticed this. Here in the Netherlands, plenty of folks call. On my job it's usually a way to get a quick message across. I'll get a call "I'm at x, where'd you leave y?" or I'll call out "hey chief, new shipment is here".

In 1994 a ringing phone was a prank call. You missed out on some fun shit

getting an actual phone call now feels like getting a letter from the IRS. instant anxiety

Before Call Display, in the early 90s, I was already getting phone anxiety.

The weirdest thing is how we went from being annoyed when someone didnt pick up the phone to being annoyed when someone actually calls us. I remember my mom would literally stand by the phone waiting for calls from friends. Now if my phone rings and its not in my contacts I ju...

and it happened so gradually nobody even noticed the shift. my parents still pick up every unknown number like it might be Ed McMahon with a sweepstakes check

And in 1966 it was the one thing that would cause your sister to run right over you to get at it.

As a finn, if I don't know their number, I don't answer, if it was important, they'll send a message.

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Ring ring ring ring ring ring banana phone!

My mom still calls me out of nowhere and gets offended when I don't pick up immediately. I keep telling her to just text me first so I know it's not some random scam call. Somewhere along the way we went from hoping the phone would ring to dreading it.

It's like a bunch of thoughts racing when hearing the phone ring only to see scam likely written across it.

That just shows you, our attention is too available these days. You automatically consider someone trying to contact you could be a threat.