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I_MicrowaveSteak72
I_MicrowaveSteak72
25d agoFood/Dining

Vibes at a restaurant aren’t important, food is. Vibes are what you create it.

I don’t care about trendy restaurants or ones with special vibes or feels. I sense such as that doesn’t matter at all because it’s based on whatever your mood is. However, I can’t vibe my manner to making poor quality food be better. I think restaurant vibes are way overblown in importance

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111 Comments

cnn75
cnn75· 25d ago

You’re telling me you feel exactly the same at a waterfront restaurant with live music as you do in a church basement looking place? Vibes are not just what you make them. They’re also everything surrounding you. Yes, obviously the food matters. But I’d rather have good foo...

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Mad-Cat732
Mad-Cat732· 24d ago

I can't stand live music in an eatery or a bar. I prefer a jukebox. Live music is local nine out of ten times, and not playing what they're even good at. Shitty covers of over played crappy pop or "classic rock". Playing so loud that you can't have a comfortable conversatio...

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5v9kc_x78y2ks
5v9kc_x78y2ks· 24d ago

Some of the worse food I've had were on the water front. Had a steak that tastes like water. I'll never forget

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zzoll6
zzoll6· 24d ago

In fairness, if the food in the church basement is AMAZING and the food at the waterfront restaurant is so-so, I’d rather go to the church basement when my goal is to get food to eat. It’d have to take either an obvious health code violation or feeling like I’m in imminent d...

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douB_len28
douB_len28· 24d ago

Vibes are the tie breaker. I know a lot of places with good food, so I pick the one with best vibes.

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Dulk-Artichoke-2313
Dulk-Artichoke-2313· 25d ago

Exactly. If food is equal, I'd rather go to the restaurant with a good vibe rather than the bland, vibeless grey boxes so many places have become.

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improbsable68
improbsable68· 25d ago

Yeah, I will purposefully seek out a cozy restaurant with good lighting and good seats. People are really weird who don’t think that your environment impacts you. I do not want my meal to feel like a Guantánamo interrogation room with bright fluorescent lights, sharp corne...

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Electronuc-Dish-4963
Electronuc-Dish-4963· 25d ago

Also, a bad vibe can completely disqualify a restaurant I don't care how good the food is, if it's dressed up like a murder room and there are shifty crackheads twitching in the corner I'm not going there

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UpperBrief680
UpperBrief680· 24d ago

Looks like someone got a bad review on their restaurant.

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wdS1
wdS1· 24d ago

Take the upvote for the unpopular opinion. I don't want to sit in a place with a McDonald's atmosphere even if the food happened to be upscale and to my taste.  Bad food is sort of unforgivable, I'm not going there for vibes if I hate the food. But you need both.

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CleverShark602
CleverShark602· 24d ago

I always miss the vibes of Austin's Riverside Taco Cabana on romantic date nights. Nothing like a bunch off people backing their subwoofers up to the patio and all playing different music while random fights break out. OP needs to go to more than the same 3 places. Couldn't ...

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hUffpost81
hUffpost81· 24d ago

You can't tell me you can will a vibe to be the same for both a McDonalds downtown in a city and a high end restaurant. I just don't believe you actually think that.

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Old_Fish354
Old_Fish354· 24d ago

i imagine some of the associated distaste of a “good” vibe is the mispricing of mediocre sysco food that usually comes with it. but this isnt always the case by any means

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Quick_Rooster57639
Quick_Rooster57639· 25d ago

The premise here is a little silly, no? This only makes sense if the primary goal of a restaurant visit is *always* the culinary experience. But if I’m catching up with my friends, I’ll happily take a socially conducive “vibe” at the expense of mediocre food.

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Bear_7588
Bear_7588· 24d ago

.... no idea who is saying vibes are more important than the food ngl

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BrightFish239
BrightFish239· 24d ago

Apparently look through this whole thread, a surprising number of people prefer vibes.

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aFscme_
aFscme_· 24d ago

Cafe Milano in DC is famous for its celebrities and few mention the food.

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dogn_Ocat
dogn_Ocat· 24d ago

I was gonna say the same thing but it appears there are many in this thread that prefer vibes. I live in a city that has kinda tame vibes with the most bangin food anyone has ever made and I'm totally okay with that. I can have a good time with my friends and family anywhere...

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AdVenturousAd1922
AdVenturousAd1922· 24d ago

I'd rather eat at a restaurant with chipped furniture, a hole in the wall and a TV stuck on a blue screen. Food is typically better and fairly priced compared to a place with artwork and a curated playlist

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As_jNakon
As_jNakon· 24d ago

Hole in the wall restaurants are sometimes the best food around!

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kev_Inmrr
kev_Inmrr· 25d ago

Agreed. Whenever influencers and younger crews say a place is great, they talking about vibes. The best food is usually in places that look drab and don't do any fancy tricks to charge you extra money

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Bear_9156
Bear_9156· 24d ago

If vibes are bad but the food is good, then I am ordering takeout. If you actually want people populating the space you paid/rent, then vibes matter. If you are a no table restaurant, then sure, skimp on vibes.

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zzilk6
zzilk6· 24d ago

Nope. If I walk into a place with fluorescent lights and a wafting grease trap, my mood about the food will become negative. In fact, I'd guess they microwave steak too.

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EagerHawk126
EagerHawk126· 24d ago

Yeah there’s a mom and pop restaurant near me that has drop ceiling and fluorescent lights. It’s also just one big open square room with giant windows that look out to an ugly parking lot because it used to be a CiCis. I want to support it because they’re family owned but it’s...

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dolonite592
dolonite592· 24d ago

Less important does not equal unimportant. The best food in the region served in a too-dark room with a loud constant screeching sound would be a bad experience.

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HappyShadow140
HappyShadow140· 24d ago

If the food is great but the vibe is terrible, my enjoyment of the experience evens out to still be pretty bad. If the food was bad but the vibe and environment was great, my experience evens out to still being pretty great and fun.

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CorgisLion_MaNe
CorgisLion_MaNe· 24d ago

Vibes are definitely important for a restaurant, but to be fair, I wouldn't expect someone who microwaves steak to value it very highly.

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dolonite592
dolonite592· 24d ago

It's a toss up. I've had great food at places with a terrible vibe, and I've also had terrible food at places with a great vibe. However, since I'm going to a restaurant for the food (obviously), I'd glady take a 70/30 split in favour of good food. Vibes are awesome, but I'...

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tigersmHs07
tigersmHs07· 24d ago

Food is what gets people to come, vibes are what gets you to have regulars.

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Some-Od7003
Some-Od7003· 25d ago

This is more of a Eating Alone vs Eating with Friends situation.

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ExoticAttituDa7
ExoticAttituDa7· 24d ago

At the end of the day people go to restaurants for the food good vibes can’t really save a bad meal

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the-Stick23
the-Stick23· 24d ago

This sub always feels like an argument people don’t want to have with their significant other. Never cared about vibes. I go to restaurants to eat.

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lelorang39
lelorang39· 24d ago

IME restaurant vibes largely consist of hard surfaces and excruciatingly loud music, which is why everyone orders in these days.

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BoldFox4374
BoldFox4374· 24d ago

It’s a balancing act. I wouldn’t say that neither are important, nor are they mutually exclusive. When I lived in SF, I frequented this tiny narrow Italian restaurant with a rude (lovingly rude, after a while) waiter. It just nailed pasta so well. I didn’t even know I particu...

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Happy-Wolf448
Happy-Wolf448· 24d ago

So eating at the strip club is the same as anywhere else.

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BrightTiger350
BrightTiger350· 24d ago

I hear that some have good buffets

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SilentSlug_207
SilentSlug_207· 25d ago

Gonna have to downvote because I agree. Restaurants with "good vibes" are trying to sell you cheap, plain food at a massive markup and are designed to attract boring picky eaters. The best food I've ever eaten was Ethiopian food in a neighborhood where I felt like I was goin...

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FreeTiger637
FreeTiger637· 24d ago

It’s a mixed bag to me. I really do like good vibes, but tbh I think vibes also inflate the food price. Not much point in going to a place with good vibes if I can’t afford to eat the food there. I live in the DC area and goddamn near EVERY restaurant here has excessive vibes...

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Electronuc-Dish-4963
Electronuc-Dish-4963· 25d ago

Don't care how good the food is... if they're blasting shitty auto-tune vocal commercial EDM through the speakers like so many places these days, chances are low I will ever return.

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Sufficient_Lead4371
Sufficient_Lead4371· 25d ago

Someone leads you to a warehouse with fold out tables and chairs, and one big spotlight beaming down on the area, and some cheap Bluetooth speaker blasting music from the other side of the building. Someone then leads you to an actual restaurant which has a good atmosphere, a...

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Justin_Godfrey72
Justin_Godfrey72· 25d ago

Food is the *most* important but vibes are not “unimportant”. Eating out is an experience, and vibes are part of the experience Same as a movie theater. The actual film and whether it is good or bad is the most important thing, but your seat (like if it’s sold out and now yo...

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9mfxu12oybw57a14m
9mfxu12oybw57a14m· 24d ago

I care more about the vibes than the food. The food is baseline. The vibe makes it romantic. And most of the vibe is lighting. Like yeah I’m gonna be romantic if I want to, and I can do that under the fluorescent lights at a fast food spot, but it’s more fun under low light ...

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fadedtiger3602
fadedtiger3602· 25d ago

True a degree. Good food will bring me in to eat sure, yes. However - Me being comfortable eating there is what gets me to come back. If I don’t like being where I’m eating, I might sing the praises of the meal… but that’s a one time deal.

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squishycuco77
squishycuco77· 25d ago

Please remember what subreddit you are in, this is unpopular opinion. We want civil and unpopular takes and discussion. Any uncivil and ToS violating comments will be removed and subject to a ban. Have a nice day! Additionally, all posts held by automod for review now (incorre...

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wEwiolrcy
wEwiolrcy· 25d ago

I play the vibes, and dont think they are overblown at all. If anything, they are underappreciated.

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BertLurker1_014
BertLurker1_014· 25d ago

Thats like saying the smell of your food doesn't matter, only the taste. Eating at a restaurant is an experience, not just a meal.

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The-QoOrs
The-QoOrs· 25d ago

The unpopular opinion is your username not the post

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Conscious_shirt4152
Conscious_shirt4152· 24d ago

Yeah just serve me the damn food. I’m out of here in a few minutes anyways.

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zzil_l7
zzil_l7· 25d ago

It’s true you can’t make up for bad food but a bad vibe can certainly ruin good food or maybe you’ve never dined in a place where the smell coming out of the bathroom is overwhelming and the wait staff act like they don’t care about anything

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Some-Od7003
Some-Od7003· 25d ago

Or when the music is too loud to hear anything else or when it’s just hot and not much A/C. No.Thank.You lol.

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DenseOriginal39
DenseOriginal39· 25d ago

Clearly you’ve never been to Rainforest Cafe

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FoxCalm65
FoxCalm65· 25d ago

Or casa bonita

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insocKniac
insocKniac· 24d ago

That's... not true at all, lol.

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RadianrLove1230
RadianrLove1230· 25d ago

Vibes matter, but they are second to food.

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dollstreal97
dollstreal97· 25d ago

For me it's about quality customer service and food but both of those seem to be going down the toilet yet coming from Miami fl they charge an arm and leg for the "experience " plus whatever other stupid fee they decide you'll pay and still expect big tips

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Fitchefli_fe
Fitchefli_fe· 24d ago

Everything ads up. Plenty of places are about as good as each other. Sometimes I want nice food but don't want to have to dress up for it. Sometimes it's just a dead atmosphere that somehow affects your own conversation. Sometimes the place is dark and dingy...the food can be ...

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IcyBird866
IcyBird866· 24d ago

What if you replaced the word ‘vibes’ with ‘atmosphere’? You can’t create your own atmosphere, it’s a cumulative thing of everyone and everything happening in the space.

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Witty_HeArt1279
Witty_HeArt1279· 25d ago

Why not both?

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CoolShark443
CoolShark443· 24d ago

Both are important

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Jolly-Whale639
Jolly-Whale639· 24d ago

Well your username checks out. 🤣

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471z5-y6v7
471z5-y6v7· 24d ago

If you mean you don’t mind hole in the wall family owned type places that prioritize food? If so most people love that and it has a good vibe of its own. But if the vibe is straight up bad like, bad lighting bad music ugly decor but the food is good I’ll just go somewhere else

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AdVenturousAd1922
AdVenturousAd1922· 24d ago

I'm not sure exactly what you mean by vibes, but I've eaten at places that were loud, dirty, crowded, etc that it detracted from the food.

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BearNifty61
BearNifty61· 24d ago

Respectfully, the vibes at a restaurant are just as important, if not more important than the food… obviously the food is the focus and needs to be consistently good, but going out to eat is about the experience. The vibes of the design, decor, staff, and other patrons are a m...

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BloomberfTAx
BloomberfTAx· 25d ago

Food, calm, company and service are the most important, and these things are subjective. I enjoy good food in any restaurant that is relatively silent, with ony a few people as company. Theme is irrelevant, and large tables with 10+ people where everyone is grasping for atten...

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NoExchanGe_7821
NoExchanGe_7821· 24d ago

I feel like people who routinely talk about "vibes" are best ignored.

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KeenFalcon1715
KeenFalcon1715· 25d ago

If I go into some grungy place I’m going to assume the food is same

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StarlightDuBlanc66
StarlightDuBlanc66· 24d ago

I'm upvoting just for the stupid use of "vibes"

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Beekier_t
Beekier_t· 24d ago

I can have good food at home by cooking or ordering delivery. If I am going out, I want an experience, and “vibes” are a big part of that.

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Brilliantspirit3_3
Brilliantspirit3_3· 24d ago

Vibes get you in the door. The food keeps you there and gets you to come back. I've been to hole in the wall restaurants that look like shit and have amazing food. Know what happens? They close.

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CoolShark443
CoolShark443· 24d ago

I fucking hate the word *vibe*. So much.

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padthaimhiskey
padthaimhiskey· 24d ago

As long as the atmosphere is even reasonably nice, you’re 100% right. You and the people your with make the vibe.

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foxoticRv
foxoticRv· 24d ago

Vibes do matter. If their music is too loud, I'm out

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GiddySmine
GiddySmine· 24d ago

Vibes are what you make them for example, if you went to a casual place, you expect a casual atmosphere. If you went to a biker bar, you expect a different crowd, so if you go there, you are there for a reason and know what you are looking for.

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IrishStatUS
IrishStatUS· 24d ago

I don’t know… There was an Italian place near us that used to play gangster rap, run disco lights, and host wwe style wrestling events on the patio The baked ziti wasn’t anywhere near good enough to overcome that vibe.

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OddNight_8399
OddNight_8399· 25d ago

If a restaurant uses cheap wayfair/amazon balsawood furniture, it's guaranteed they use cheap-ass, old meat.

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thezmaRtass1
thezmaRtass1· 25d ago

I think it depends. Like you can go to a restaurant just on vibes and then maybe the food will be good. But at the same time I feel that vibes also impact a lot on the experience. If the food is sublime but the vibe is ass I'm not going back lol

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EcHo2200
EcHo2200· 25d ago

I might be in the minority but I actually like the vibe of a McDonalds way more than any high class restaurant I’ve been to. The casualness, shitty music, no waiters etc makes the vibe perfect for working on homework or causal conversation

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Disastrous_Care1438
Disastrous_Care1438· 24d ago

I mean would you want to eat a meal in a nightclub?

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NeatViper5793
NeatViper5793· 25d ago

Good vibes will never make up for bad food, but bad vibes can definitely ruin good food at a certain point.

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Findinh_Way_
Findinh_Way_· 25d ago

Upvote for the unpopular opinion. I don't think most people go to restaurants where they think the food is shitty though.

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DepententPeanut1309
DepententPeanut1309· 25d ago

You say that until you go to a really disgusting restaurant with a borderline hostile environment

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lovemivebreathe68
lovemivebreathe68· 25d ago

Bad food kills the vibe but bad vibes makes the food less enjoyable.

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IndividualBoughn_ut96
IndividualBoughn_ut96· 24d ago

Mostly agree but I don’t want it to be too loud and obnoxious either.

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Brave_Frog
Brave_Frog· 24d ago

For me, if I walk in and it's empty and I'm not made to feel welcome there I'll usually walk right out.

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ArcherSarcastic80
ArcherSarcastic80· 24d ago

90% food, 10% lighting/volume

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RadianrLove1230
RadianrLove1230· 24d ago

Vibes and ambiance are just as important as the food....a lot of places lack one or the other....some get it just right....I'll visit a place for the ambiance before I visit for the food....I can always have a drink or two enjoy the ambiance/vibe then grab food somewhere else

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noahstEmann5
noahstEmann5· 24d ago

IDK.  Some places have good enough food, but I'm not eating in.

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Clever-Eagle678
Clever-Eagle678· 24d ago

If there are two identical restaurants, except one of them is playing country music over their speakers and the other is playing nothing, I'm picking the one playing nothing.

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crispyshark
crispyshark· 24d ago

Horrific take

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EagleVast29
EagleVast29· 24d ago

Disagree. I think vibes are equally important because it speaks to personality. I prefer a family owned Italian place where you feel like you're eating in someone's family kitchen over some "Look we're in Italy" chain or "Look this is fine dining" suit and tie place.

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mtfoxesite-2377
mtfoxesite-2377· 25d ago

Going out to eat is just as much about the vibes as it is the food

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Free_Storm942
Free_Storm942· 24d ago

No. The atmosphere of a restaurant can make up for half-decent food. If you are just looking for food as an ends to a means then that's on you, but if I'm going on a date, the "vibes" do matter.

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o3jc8tm3jj-lf2w9z0r
o3jc8tm3jj-lf2w9z0r· 25d ago

If the staff are all dicks to each other and the customers then that is certainly not an issue of “what you make of it” Also if the restaurant is dirty as fuck

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thezmaRtass1
thezmaRtass1· 25d ago

Well it really depends in why you go to a restaurant. The thing is, most restaurants are either very expensive and have insanly good food, or they are decently priced and offer food that I could make myself, too. If I seek out places to discover new food, yeah Id agree that t...

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0cqhmb6_v8thadov
0cqhmb6_v8thadov· 25d ago

I love burgers. Some time ago i've saw a new burgerplace in my city but i won't step in no matter what. Why? The vibe. It's sterile and cold, unwelcoming. White and gray walls, black counter, black tables and chairs, white light, no decorations, flower pots or pictures on wall...

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As_hNakon
As_hNakon· 25d ago

Okay so youre saying if I serve gourmet food ourt of a dog bowl you wouldn't find that weird?

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Viscuitgod_1
Viscuitgod_1· 24d ago

agreed. food is the only reason we even *have* restaurants. they copyrighted it, and we cant make it at home.

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ArcherSharp19
ArcherSharp19· 24d ago

To be honest the best experiences I've had at restaurants wasn't based on the food as long as there's nothing wrong with it. Vibes are what make you remember it.

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Len-The-Banana-Buy95
Len-The-Banana-Buy95· 24d ago

Vibes, and I'm not saying luxury vibes is what makes you go from outdoor to the table and come back if the food is good but not exceptional.

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ActivoteGuacamole42
ActivoteGuacamole42· 25d ago

Vibes are important, food is just more important.

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Bold-Lion894
Bold-Lion894· 25d ago

Both.

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GooseFancy84
GooseFancy84· 24d ago

Vibes are the initial appeal to a restaurant. The food keeps one coming back.

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Isa_Me-Afain
Isa_Me-Afain· 25d ago

You're obviously objective. Most people are gullible. It's why the scheme effectively fools enough people to become profitable enough to be a business trend. When (most) people feel or think they should feel impressed, they pay the higher price.

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NiftyOtter628
NiftyOtter628· 25d ago

It’s not about being gullible. It’s about enjoying a pleasant atmosphere. You ever sit somewhere and think “ah, this is nice”? Atmosphere.

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Away-Scar7757
Away-Scar7757· 25d ago

This isn't an opinion, it's just wrong

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Fickke-ad5449
Fickke-ad5449· 25d ago

OPs stated they personally prefer good food to good vibes. That is in fact an opinion whether you agree with it or not.

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BrightTiger90
BrightTiger90· 25d ago

I agree 100%. Me and my boys have a great time whether it’s getting a simple coffee at Dunkin or going to Korean BBQ. Bad food is unforgettable and that ruins the night more than anything else.

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Happy-Wolf448
Happy-Wolf448· 25d ago

Absolutely. Food gets me to a restaurant in spite of their vibe, and a vibe is what makes me choose one restaurant over another when the food quality is similar. I don't pay for vibe.

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